Have you tried to ajaxify the multi-month view calendar using RadAjaxManager or RadAjaxPanel? Thus should speed up the performance of the control since the month navigation will be performed with ajax requests instead of plain postbacks.
You may also migrate to the latest Q3 2008 Beta release
of RadControls for ASP.NET AJAX which introduces optimized rendering for RadCalendar.
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