I am not quite sure about your exact setup and the described problem. I suggest to set relative position to the RadPane which contains the RadTabStrip as explained in this KB article
In case this does not help, please, open a new support ticket and send me a sample, fully working demo project along with a detailed explanation of the problem and some screenshots. Once I receive this information, I will do my best to help.
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