Could you please send a page or paste the markup of your RadSiteMap, because this way we would be able to inspect the rendering of the control and help you change the styles? (also please attach your custom CSS files)
Please also note that the headers(zero-level nodes) have bigger font-size than the first level nodes by default and the RadSiteMap control is elastic:
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