Currently we are not aware of an approach that can allow you to define the menu items in the markup and set them as last items. However, using code behind, as you mention and the OnDataBound
server-side event you can easily add menu items on the last position on the RadMenu control. For further reference here is a very simple example how this can be implemented.
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