I am not sure I completely understand what behavior you would like to get when expanding an item in the TreeList. Would you like to show only the items that have child elements? Or would you like not to show the button with triangle icon before to the item?
I made this video
for a reference. Please take a look at it and let me know if you need further assistance.
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