Hi Stein,
The described behavior is observed because of the way the RadTextBox control works internally. If you would like to have the EmptyMessage displayed on more than one line you should replace the "\r\n" string with "\n". This way the EmptyMessage text will be displayed only when the input is blurred and has no value.
Regards,
Viktor Tachev
Telerik
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