I already answered you support ticket. However, I am attaching the sample project which demonstrates how to wrap the text in the merged cell. I have predefined its template and now it uses a regular Textblock element with TextWrapping property set to Wrap. You can check the changes I made in the Themes/Telerik.Windows.Controls.GridView. file (on line 1400).
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