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RadGrid Virtualization functionality is not implemented to works with custom paging, therefore you can not get them work fine together. However, I discussed this scenario with our developers and they said that we can improve the Virtualization in order to make it work when custom paging is enabled. We have also logged this request in our ideas and feedback portal.
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