In the first tow cases there shouldn't be any selection thus it is expected for SelectedValue to return null. As for the third case you are right indeed. The selection of an item seems to be made just after the control is blurred (when pressing the 'Tab' key).
What exactly is the scenario that you are trying to implement?
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