You can color the appointments in the AppointmentDataBound event as it is done in this on-line demo.
As for the MinutelyRecurrenceRule -thank you for sharing this feature request and for your concern with RadControls -we will consider it for the future versions of our control.
All the best,
the Telerik team
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