RadEditor does not offer the ability to load its toolbar in another control. If you want you can hide the toolbar using the Clear method of the Tools collection
and implement your custom toolbar which will fire the editor's commands using the editor's fire() method. I suggest you also take a look at this forum thread
which discusses a similar issue. I could also suggest you try to implement the desired functionality with the RadToolBar control
Regarding the problem you mention due to which you do not want to use RadEditor, what do you mean under "RadEditor doesn't show up checkboxes and labels"
? Where do you add these checkboxes and labels - in the editor's toolbar or in its content area? What do you mean under labels as there are no label html elements? How do you expect RadEditor to behave with these elements? Please, give us more details about what you want to achieve so that we can get a better idea of your scenario. We will be glad to help you.
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