Indeed, ItemChecked event fires only when an “item checkbox” is checked.
When the CheckAllItemsCheckbox is checked - no server-side event fires.
However you can easily obtain the checked items at server-side by using an ASP.NET Button to fire postbask - as it is demonstrated here
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