I am afraid that the behaviour that you describe is not officially supported.
You can try to populate the three RadComboBox controls using the same DataTable (for example), but I doubt that this will help you achieve a better performance.
In general loading a great amount of items in RadComboBox is a challenging task and the best way to improve performance in such scenarios is to use Load On Demand
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