We already fixed the problems you have listed and the fixes are included in our Q1 SP 2014. I would like to ask you if to download our latest official binaries if that is possible and let us know if you still find any problems. Also please note that if you cant upgrade we could provide you with a custom style for the RadRibbonWindow to match the look in MS Office.
Please excuse us for any inconvenience caused.
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