Unfortunately automatic synchronization of hovering, in the scenario you described, is not possible. You can, however, achieve such a behavior manually. I have attached a sample project that demonstrates the approach and it can help you accomplish your task.
Hope this helps.
: Attached is a Silverlight project but the approach and code is applicable for WPF.
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