If you want to access the rowindex from the sreverside SelectedIndexChanged event, access the GridDataItem using the property NamingContainer of the RadComboBox. Here is the sample code that I tried. Hope this helps you.
In order to get rowindex from clientside attach client event OnClientSelectedIndexChanged and then pass the parameters. Since radcontrols expect only default parameters(sender,arguments) assign anonymous function and then pass the extra parameters.