The functionality that you require is available only with Batch edit mode, where a dirty indicator will be placed within the edited cells and furthermore, the server-side OnBatchEditCommand event will be fired only for the rows that were modified.
For the other edit modes (like the InPlace edit mode), such functionality is not available, mainly because each operation should be performed per row (through the Update, Insert or Delete buttons).
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