In order to achieve your goal, you can predefine the template of the FilteringControl. Each column has a FilteringControlStyle property. So, you can create a Style that changes the template(remove the "SelecteAll" checkbox) of the FilteringControl and assign it to the property. I would suggest you to work with our Implicit Themes as demonstrated in this help article
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