Hi Justin,
Basically, you need to handle the DragDropEvents for both controls.
You can do it by handling the DropEvent for the ListBox, and add the column to its items source there, and handling the DragDropCompleted event for the GridView in order to remove the Column from the Columns collection.
Hope this helps.
Regards,
Nik
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