change gridclientdeletecolumn confirmtext in codebehind

[Shira]

I need to internationalize the confirmation text from my GridClientDeleteColumn with a text set in code behind (because translations are in the db, not in resource files).  I know how to get ahold of the controls inside of the column for a specific row in the ItemCreated method (item["DeleteColumnName"].Controls[0]), but I don't know how to get ahold of the GridClientDeleteColumn itself to change the ConfirmText field, and I don't know how to get ahold of the whole column at once to change for all rows as opposed to one row at a time.  Any thoughts? 

Many thanks!