If a parent control for the listbox is added as updated control, the behavior you observe is expected. You can overcome it with the below code:
sender, AjaxSettingCreatedEventArgs e)
(e.Updated.ClientID == Panel1.ClientID)
Where you need to replace Panel1 with the parent for the listbox control.
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