We are not sure how to assist you in that case since we cannot observe what you described. If you are using the callback function of your REST request that you mentioned you should not have timing issues. If you need to execute logic when a tab is loaded consider using the contentLoad event of the TabStrip.
Let me know if we can assist you on a particular issue that we can observe.
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