The IsSeparator property is not supported in Kendo Grid. Each command has a special class assigned, that you could use to add custom styles - in the current scenario left and right margins to add some spacing. Some of the classes for the default commands are k-grid-add
etc. Each custom command also receives a class, that follows the pattern k-grid-[commandName]
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