The size and apperance of native web page scrollbars depend on the operating system and browser. There are ways to change the colors, but every browser requires a different approach and supports different tweaks. With regard to the scrollbar size, your options are limited to Chrome and probably Safari.
Generally, if you manage to achieve the desired result with a regular scrollable <div> and CSS code, then the same approach will work with the Grid scrollbar.
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