Generally, if you implement INotifyPropertyChanged interface in your business object, RadGridView should know about those changes and update them right away. If you work with RadDataPager, you can handle its PageIndexChanging/PageIndexChanged events. If more appropriate you can work with EventToCommand pattern and handle those actions in your ViewModel. Is that what you are working for or am I missing anything ?
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