I would suggest you working with the bound data items. In your case you should have a boolean property of the bound business object, for example it can be IsChecked.
Then, you can consider using the IsReadOnlyBinding property of the column. Please check our online documentation for more information on how it works.
That way when the CheckBox is checked, the respective cell in the data column displaying the Name will be disabled.
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