Basically, what you need to do is to define a UserControl with the needed dependency properties and set the binding in your custom column to them. You can follow the approach from the referred article, as it is demonstrating the approach.
Can you please share some details what are the difficulties you are experiencing with it or you have already tried another one? I am also not completely able to understand what you mean by to have the same style for the button and the subscreen. Can you shed more light on that?
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