Custom modifications to the Kendo UI source code are not supported. As a sample approach in the current case you could disable the Grid selection and manually add the k-state-selected
class the rows, that should be selected, instead of using the select() method of the Grid API.
In order to retrieve the selected rows in the current case, you could again use the k-state-selected
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