You could use GridViewColumn.ColumnFilterDescriptor.IsActive property. This property indicates that there is a filter applied to that column. You could use any UI control to show that information or you could use RadDataFilter which will visualize the current filter while RadGridView will show results. For more information you can take a look at this online example (indeed this is for Silverlight, but same applies to WPF as well).
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