Could please tell me which version of RadControls causes the problem? I've tried with 2009.3.1314, latest internal build for Q3 and current official release (2010.Q1) and everything works fine on my end. However I could recommend you to change your xaml to something like following in order to get full advantage of RadGridView editing and validation mechanism.
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