To implement this scenario, you can deal with the uploaded files by chunk. More information on how to accomplish this you can find here
As for your second question, unfortunately the RadUploader doesn't support this scenario for now. However, we are planning to enable support for it as soon as possible. Do you have any deadlines regarding this feature?
Please let us know if you need more info.
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