To change the gradient of the pressed state, you need to generate the Style for the ButtonChrome found in the increase and decrease buttons. The generated ButtonChromeStyle has a Border x:Name="PressedVisual"
element. You can change its Background, Border, BorderThickness to your own needs. Again, attached is the modified project.
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