Including our assemblies into your project has its price. Such excellent UI components require huge amounts of code. You say that the difference between the ordinary binaries and our NoXaml binaries is not great. However, you should keep in mind that our minifier should do exactly this. It removes the unused XAML from our binaries and leaves only the styles that you will use. It does not reduce the C# code of the controls. What I want to say is that since our NoXaml binaries are large for you our minifier will definitely not cover you requirements.
If using our NoXaml binaries is still not convenient for you there is one more option that you can take. As our customer you have access to our source code. You can download the source code form your Telerik account and you can build your own binaries. In those binaries you can exclude the controls that you will not use along with their styles. By following this approach you can reduce the code as much as possible. You will need to spend time to reduce the size of the binaries but this is the most convenient way as only you know which controls will be used in your projects.
I hope this information is helpful.
Pavel R. Pavlov
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