Unfortunately, when you drag a control from the toolbox you will always get the default ones and thus you will have to manually assign the custom style from the previous post. This will be fixed once we release a new version of the controls and you install them.
Regarding your second question, please refer to my answer to a similar question you asked on the following thread:
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