Unfotunately this is a limitation in the current Silverlight version - this scenario is supported in WPF, but not in Silverlight.
Why you just do not set the IsLoadOnDemandEnabled property to the RadTreeView? It will take care to set the "expander image" on the nodes that do not have children.
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