Hi Jeff Kershner,
Currently you can change the Height only on the minimized items by the MinimizedHeight property, but we are planing to implement this feature for the Q1 2011 Beta and along with this you'll be able to explicitly set width and height to the restored items.
If you have further questions feel free to ask.
the Telerik team
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