Yes AdoNet2 is not required anymore, but the 'upgrade references' process is not handling it, so you will have to remove ti yourself (I don't think you need a reference to that in your project whatsoever).
The Telerik.OpenAccess.Web.40.dll case is different - it si not mandatory and contains our DynamicData implementation (.NET 4.0).
the Telerik team
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