Can you please check the approach described in this forum topic
and tell us if this is appropriate solution in your scenario? Having the ChartArea retemplated you can put the annotations layer on top.
Regarding your second question, unfortunately you cannot change the style of a specific axis label with the current version of RadChart. This issue is already logged in our public issues tracking system
and you can track its progress there.
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