Hi Adrian Pay,
Such use of RadContextMenu is not supported. In order to work as expected RadContextMenu should be Opened / closed. When placed in as content - this doesn't happen.
In order to fix it you should attach it using the RadContextMenu.ContextMenu attached property and set EventName="DropDownOpened".
Let us know if you need more information.
the Telerik team
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