Hi Jon Bergquist,
You need to create a new theme for your custom controls that will match the Look and feel of the Shiny blue theme.
For more info how to skin the Telerik controls take a look at this blog post:
As for the ISM - our controls should work with it. Do you experience any problems using it?
All the best,
the Telerik team
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