RadContextMenu have an EventName that you can use to open it. For example you could set it to MouseEnter event and RadContextMenu will open on mouse enter (like RadMenu).
I would recommend to edit the template of the filtering control and there you could replace the button and context menu with RadMenu. This will be the better option.
I hope this information will help you.
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