It's seems that the issue you are currently facing is more an issue in your WebService and not in the RadDatePicker control. I could suggest you to check the endpoint in the web.config file. It's should point to your web site and not to localhost. If you've already did it, you could also check this Silverlight forum
for possible solutions.
Hope this is helpful.
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