You need to extract the template of the control by right-clicking it in Visual Studio's designer and choosing Edit Template -> Edit a Copy
. This will extract the default style and you will be able to locate the PressedStateWithOpacityMaskForegroundFillBrush
and change its value.
I hope this information helps.
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