You could go with the External Dialogs
approach already mentioned in the linked forum thread.
Once you copy the Pencil dialog to your own dialogs folder, just make sure to set the SelectedColor of the RadColorPicker and the Selected attribute on the ComboBox item that you wish to start with.
Hope this helps.
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