As far as I understand you want to access the RadMenuItem instance from the Button Click event handler.
An easy way to do that is:
1. To cast the sender object to the appropriate object (Button in your case as shown below) .
public void cmdGo_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
2. The associated RadMenuItem is returned by the property NamingContainer.
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