You should have usesystemdefault="false"
in the config files.
For the scenario you describe, running as a service is probably the best approach, but Fiddler is not tested in this configuration. Typically, developers instead use FiddlerCore to build a service-specific application for this task, but if Fiddler alone is doing what you need, that's nice to hear.
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