I apologize for the late response.
Yes, manual selection of item in TKSideDrawer doesn't invoke its delegate's DidSelectItem method. DidSelectItem, similar to UITableView delegate, is called when the user selects an item through the UI. This is expected behavior because since you are selecting an item manually you can easily manipulate the selected item. Could you, please, elaborate on why you need DidSelectItem to be called when you are selecting an item with code?
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