You could easily achieve the desired by changing the IsActive property of the desired Pane by using a button click. Once the Pane is activated it will expand automatically and stay opened as long as it is the active Pane of the Docking control. Check the attached sample project which demonstrates the exact approach.
Hope this will work for you.
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