You can access the mentioned close button using the following approach:
grid = $find(
'<%= RadGrid1.ClientID %>'
editForm = grid.get_editItems().get_editFormItem();
closeLinkButton = $(editForm).find(
Once you have a reference to the link button, you can simply hide it or check various sources over the net on disabling anchor elements.
Hope this helps.
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