I would suggest you to set IsBusy to true when you start loading the data, not in the LoadingData event handler.
You could refer to the following forum thread - http://www.telerik.com/community/forums/silverlight/busy-indicator/how-to-add-busyindicator-to-tileview.aspx
I hope this helps.
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